Friday, September 27, 2013

Wake me up when September ends.....9/26/13

So I'm on the couch, the couch I didn't sell anyhow....

My legs are in a tremendous amount of pain, they are on fire

The reason? Not 100% sure! but a summer of nonstop photography may have something to do with it. The fact I turned 45 2 weeks ago might have some thing to do with it. The ninja moves I have been making trying to lose weight via Jillian and painting, remodeling fixing the studio up May have a bit more to do with it. Here I sit, I was feeling a bit fried so in a way, despite the horrible thought I will be disappointing many, I need to keep these legs up until they feel better, and I feel better. It's peak week here, and I have seniors and families booked all over. 

So what to do? I guess blog!

Let's catch up yet again with the family.....

In march, Mikki moved out and into her own apartment. She broke up with a boyfriend she hadn't dated long and began dating the guy she had had a cruch on since the first week of school, Jalen. She did also flunk out of school, and although appealed successfully to get back in this fall, she is paying for it herself. Financial aid told her free ride was over, as did I. 

Happily though she and the guys moved in to a house in ironwood together, and appear to be finally, happily figuring it all out. She works full time at the bell, has her own phone line and has managed to set up a long overdue surgery for a root canal all on her own. She loves her bf and us, she comes to visit her pugs and we are happy to see her independent and thriving. She's taking a cad class and if she successfully passes, her financial aid resumes.

In May, Gianna had her 8th grade banquet, and finished her junior high year a 4.0, she began babysitting and plotting and planning her convergence trip with Pete, my brother, in the cities.

We also finally bought a camper!!!!YES!!!!! 

We had our first camping trip Memorial Day weekend, and have been to subsequently, Upson falls, Madeline island, weber lake twice, iron county youth camp and with any luck. We hope to get in one more trip to either Minnesota or lake of the falls the first weekend in October with either jerry and Tamra, or Laura and Tony.....fingers crossed!

In June, I went to spend the week at Madeline island school of the arts for an adobe Lightroom course! and I LOVED it. I saw the most amazing sunrises and sunsets, sea caves and so much more. I will cherish it! Tabitha turned 12 and my dad in Duluth turned 70. We celebrated by taking him geocaching to find his gifts. Haven't seen too much of Linda, her health seems to be okay, but we are grateful when everyone's healthy enough to visit for sure!

July brought Gianna's much awaited convergence and the camp we so love. Gianna and granny Bertha were camp cooks and I again enjoyed photography. Hard to believe it's already been 2 years since we bought the house this August.... Dave had tirelessly worked on the yard, finished the siding, transplanted his beloved grandmothers peonies, planted many a sunflower, dug switches and built his greenhouse and made a lot of progress. Inside we're unpacking the very last boxes of trinkets and since Mikki moved out, Tabbi has reclaimed her bedroom and gotten a large new bunk bed, while Gianna has transformed her old room into a gamers paradise complete with chalkboard wall and sci fi posters from convergence. Definately the highlight of her life! A trip to the cities for back to school shopping and the Minnesota state fair with Pete and Sarah brought our summer to a quick and happy ending.

September 1st saw the girls back to school, one a freshman, the other a junior high student. I quietly jumped off the sub list, and also the pto. Too busy with photography and defiantly onto a new chapter for all of us. Weird to be a core family of 4 , but also less stressful for me, and more room to roam here. I am enjoying the decorating and finally feeling like a know this house. It's funny, it seriously takes a while. Sounds weird but I'm actually excited to be doing the yard up for Halloween, even though there'll be no trick or treaters this year....Gianna started aikido and auditioned for silver express. She didn't get in, but she's in que for next year. She's also loving babysitting and has began pining away for her first car, a jeep of course.

Tabltha is enjoying school, and her friends. It was a great thing to see her and Riley playing with the American girl dolls and dollhouses when she was here last weekend. They have dusted them off and e laughter was wonderful to hear. She's still my little girl. She didn't join basketball and I didn't force her to do anything, she's contented to just be Tabbi, and that's fine by me. No rush, no stress, band and choir and her studies are quite enough!

Projects left to do now this fall are installing the new fireplace, getting gutters, heat tape, refinancing for a mound system (septic), roof and installing the free jet tub Dave acquired this summer from the days in remodeling. I'm also couch surfing with the girls, time for a new sectional. The huge game/family room will be complete. The studio set for people for the winter, and the girls enjoying bigger spaces, the garage emptier so we can park in it, Dave's brewery and office downstairs is taking shape, and gnome depot....yes, gnome depot, will be opening for business. 

While I am not looking forward to winter, I am looking forward to having less of a overloaded schedule in my work. While addictive, I have to take a break. The money and the overwhelming success is phenomenol and surpassed all my expectations, but I am paying for it daily right now. I've created a monster? Yes.....that's the best way to explain it! I am taking off December 15-January 15 for myself and for Dave as he will finally be getting His hands and nose surgeries done. 

There you are! Hopefully I don't wait another 6 months to blog!







Thursday, January 24, 2013

It's cold out.....must be time to paint and blog

Haven't written in a LONG time!! This past year has been a busy barrage of photography, life and kids-Mikhayla has graduated high school (we had a ton of family and friends come see her and the new home for her party-it was wonderful!!) and is at the local college trying out her wings (sigh) and giving me gray hairs, she has her first set of wheels and first real job! She's a waitress (and loving it) at a local diner...college is a challenge for her, but socially she has made some new friends and enjoys a good game of Magic cards and D & D..she is more and more like my brother as time goes by!...Gianna is 4.0 stellar student and a range basketball champ. She plays in band, choir and is just a joy, my little gamer...she's struggling with normal teen stuff but I am so proud of her. She makes such wise decisions! Tabbi is the last of my kids in Elementary, and did cheerleading this fall, gets straight A's as well, is friend to all and a comedian for sure...Tabitha just got 2nd place in her 6th grade basketball frozen chosen tourneys this past weekend, followed by a frozen week off of school, they finally went back on Thursday-and while we got alot done around the house, I finally broke everyone out yesterday just to make sure the car started and to stop crawling the walls....I love my girls...I do...with every new chapter in their life it's amazing how one set of frustrations and challenges and joys is replaced by another completely different set!

Other updates; we sold our Montreal home in July (PHEW!!) and I left my STARS afterschool job after a fruitful successful summer doing pictures. I did about 15 weddings, 170 shoots in 2012. I feel like a small local celebrity, and while I am ever still critical, I feel the practice I get, the feedback I get means I am definitely doing what I was born to do...and that is a great feeling! I don't think I could have foreseen what was coming my way, and after many hard ups and downs career wise, it's a huge relief to find something that makes people happy and I enjoy! Dave's happily in his shop, yard and sauna almost nightly, loving the country and went hunting this fall with Gianna. He misses camping as well, and we definitely need a getaway!

The pugs are great, the family wonderful! Oh, my half sister Shirley became a grandma this past summer-Rudy and Sha'Tanya welcomed little adorable Jazmekah into the world, I also have plans to visit all of them and meet this adorable little one this year-it's been too long! Fargo is a long boring trip as is Hurley, we almost connected in our favorite city Minneapolis this fall-we're still trying ;)

I feel silly that I only think to blog in the winter when I am bored and have nothing better to do...but the fact I was too busy to think of it means I was working, outside and certainly not trapped here in front of my monitor..on deck for this year for our little family:

January: Pam is heading up a local fundraiser for Hurley native Alyssa Paro "Clickin for a Cure" along with being on the committee in February for her spaghetti feed.
February: The Parade of Birthdays! Lady Gaga on Feb 6th in the cities, a little visit with Pete & Sarah...swinging through Duluth to hopefully see more friends and family! Mikhayla's planning to move into a house with college friends and leave the nest (GULP)
March: Spring Break-Not sure where we'll go but we're out of here!! (Probably twin cities-hoping to see Shirley, Corey and the kids)
April: Pam's going to 2 proms!! Starting a garden :)
May 9-19, trip to England to see Anita & Dave Kettlewell for Pam & Dave's 15th anniversary
June: Pam's Dad turns 70, back to some camping!! Working on our yard some more....
July: Summer Youth Camp and more camping, maybe a family trip around the Big Lake?
August: Pam's going to Madeline Island school of arts for photography for the week
September: Gianna starts high school, Tabbi starts Junior High
October-December....I can't think that far ahead!!!

Sta Warm! (And yes to my in laws in Texas...I know you are....)